Category: Dating and Relationships
Ok, now I'm not asking what your favorite sexual position is, or what you think your favorit sexual position would be if you could try it out. I'm asking you to define your self, your personality, physical appearance, relationship with others, your emotional archatype and your over-all sense of self as a sexual position. For example. When asked what my favorit color is I tell some one bright sunshine, crisp vibrant lemon yellow. When asked what color I am I would say chocolate brown with a touch of mahogany red, or deep rich, cool, forest green. So, what sexual position would you be, and why?
now this isn't fair if you don't explain yours first.
dear frequency
you are as the one who asks about a matter like that must give us his or her first
Ok. I think I would be classic mitionary position with a twist. I'm very emotional, romantic, often needy, very touchy feeley and so a position that allows both partners to kiss and make eye contact, to easily touch one another and to communicate verbaly and physically would best suit my personality. I can be dominant in life when I need to be and I am often a leader, a take-charge type, also very protective of my friends, but when confronted with some one of a superior talent, a superior intelect, or with superior experiance in life or in bed I tend to take the submissive position. So, that would explain the classic mitionary position with the woman on the bottem and the man on the top, but with the woman still having some control over what happens. I am not entirely submissive though and I like to participate fully in lovemaking, as well as in life, which is why a position like this would reflect my personality, better than another position such as doggy style where the woman is much more dominated, and much less in-control. Also, it is a very natural position and I am a very natural person. I refuse to die, blow dry, straiten, curl, perm or otherwise alter my hair either with chemicals or with heat. I always choose foods that are more natural, real butter, not margerine who's chemical composition is closer to plastic then to food, no artificial sweeteners either. Risk the extra callories and don't fill your body with cancer-causing chemicals. I love the sounds of the rain falling on leaves or of the wind howeling in the winter. Also I am very classically pritty, not slutty, not sassy, not skanky, not freaky, not drop dead beautiful. So, a simple, but beautiful position best describes my nature. Also it's such a classic position that you can add a lot of variation. I like a relatively simple life, but with a lot of variation. I don't need heaps of money, but I like to try all sorts of music, poetry, food and art from all over the world. I am also very big on communication. I love to write, to talk and to sing, and this position is one of great sharing and communication. The twist, well sort of. The twist is that it is the classic mitionary position but with the man laying fully atop the woman, not supporting him self on his arms. This simbolizes my very physical side. I like to be close to people, my lover, my famly, my friends, especially during an exciting or stressful time. Ok, I think that's quite enough. your turn then,.
hmmm lets see.... what sexual position would i be. well I'm the type that likes to recieve pleasure as much as giving it in return . so i'd want to be in a position that lets me be able to do so. I like being held as well as to hold that special person, so again a position that allows each of us to be able to hold each other . I am also a leader sometimes through out my life so any position that would be able for me to express my leadership skills in that sense. Over all I love giving attention as well as recieveing it, so it doesn't really matter who does what first, all that matters is that we're taken an equal turn in pleasuring each other.
So, what position then? Question, What color would you be and why? Answer, A color that does this, a color that does that, and a color that does this that and the other thing. So, what color exactly? lol Not trying to badger you, just trying to get a concrete answer for my board topic here.
My favorite sectual Position is being on the bottom and letting the woman be on top. This does mean that I won't get on top if My GF wants I believe in a relationship it is 50 50 You have to give as much as you get. Weather its lovemaking or helping to pay the bills or cumferting one another
Well, that's interesting, but not the question I asked. Ah well. I give up. I guess throwing in the psychological/creative/introspective/artistic element was a foolish hope. Ok, I'm here-by officially changing the title of this board from "What Sexual Position Would You Be and Why?" to "What Is Your Favorite Sexual Position." Seeing as that's what everyone seems to be posting here anyway. lol
well, the position I would be is my favorite position anyways, so I'll answer both. I would be probably the woman on top, riding position, here's why. I'm a very passionate person, and very sensual, so I want my man to feel that, however, at the same time I want to lose control when I feel I am ready to lose control. I like being just a little more dominant than most and initiating things a little more than most. I also am the type that loves alot of exploration and foreplay, so in the position I chose to be, my partner could explore me, touch my body all over with his fingers, lift his head and play with my nipples that sort of thing, anyways. I'm getting a little too detailed here, but in short, I'm a very dominant, but sensual and passionate person, who loves to lose control to that special someone, but only when I'm ready, I just feel that climax is so special, especially if you can manage to hold it out till he is ready.
Jess, you just discribed why I prefer a woman on top. Also it's more difficult for a woman to orgasm, so if she has some level of control by being on top she can help make sure it happens. but yes to be able to explore touch and lick a woman wile you're inside her is awesome.
very impressive Jess.
Come on now. If you're going to visit this topic, and even take the time to respond then you really should answer the question that the topic was created to address.
I would be doggy style as I'm intense and like to have control in bed most of the time. However, having the girl on top would also suit me at times as I like to please and i like the girl to be involved and contributing. and as far as what I like, both of those positions as well as the girl standing up bent over with me standing behind her, or, classic missionary position or, having the girl's legs on my shoulders as you can get really deep penitration that way.
So, a multifacited and intriquetly complex personality then? Or just someone who really enjoys sex?
ah, all of the above!
Anyone else out there brave enough to respond to this topic?
I'd be in the Anal sex position, where I'm shoving it so hard up the girls but that she has to byte the pillos to not wake up the entire naberhood. Also I'd fuck her so hard that her sphincter was destroyed and she'd have to wear dypers for the rest of her life. Take from that what you will about me.
jared i love you in the strictly in a not romantic way. Thanks but I'll keep my asshole verginity for someone else. Anyway I'm not completely sure on position names and such. I can say what type of fantacy I'd be... Well i guess i'd also be a standard missionary. I'm passionate, but like others to have control. I'm someone who likes others to have pleasure even if sometimes I don't get as much pleasure. I am a paisient person usually and try to put others above me.
I'd be misionary too cause of the touching and kissing thing. Also I'd be on top as I like to be in controll.
Mya
I will respond to the actual topic, but, wow, Jared ... you're amazing. Lmao!
Well, TRBM, that is quite obvious. You, sir are an ass-hole. More than a little scary too.
heather jared is on here for reaction... believe a word he said on this board than he got your reaction... go again
Well, then somebody needs to stop attention seeking, if he thinks he has to give a false post for shock value rathre then posting what they really think or feel.
Heather the reason I didn't give this a serious responce is because it's the worst attempt at the creation of soft core porn I've ever sceen.
That's not meant to be it's perpose. If you'll look at the responses, mine in particular you'll see that it's honest, but by no means overly descriptive. This is no different from asking someone, if you were a number, what number would you be? What musical instrument would you be? Which former US President would you be? Which charictor from Avenue Q would you be?
i'd be trekki. bring on the porn
haha. I'd be trekky monster too. And I'd be Bill Clinton as far as former Presidents go. say what you will but he was really smart, had carizma, and was a musician.
Right you are guitargod1. Plus he knew what he liked.
More porn please.
Bob
Hmm, it's kind of hard to say what I'd be. I have a pretty flexible personality and I'm the type that likes to go with the flow. Generally, I'm pretty laid back about most things. I like for us to alternate between having the control. I get pleasure out of giving him pleasure, if that makes sense. The intimacy and closeness is better than the orgasm to me. I don't mind trying new things as long as he wants to do them with me.
I'm not a leader, nor a follower; I usually like doing things my way. I am fiercely passionate about a few things, and extremely loyal, faithful and true only to those I love and care about deeply.
So ... maybe you could help me out here. What position do you think I would be?
I'd be Lincon, accept I wouldn't have freed the slaves.
Bleh, don't like you!
Hmmm. Sounds sort of like sideways missionary. Face-to-face, but on your sides. Simple, but unique, intimate and allowing either to take over or give up control in turns. Avenue Q. Oh, yeah. The internet is for porn. The internet is for porn. Grab your dick and double click for porn, porn, porn... hang on a minute, internet not just for guys, Internet, and, porn for gals too. The internet is for porn, the internet is for porn. Grip your clit and double click for porn, porn, porn.
Hi,
Now i think of it ... you're right. That fits perfectly. *SMILE*
Really? Cool. We should find someone to research a study to find a sexual position preference personality corilation. Although, I'm sure it's been done in some way before.
and i'm sure heather that you are ubsessed with sex. thank you and please don't cum again.
No, I'm obsessed with music. Food and sex run a close second.
Thought I'd give the starting topic a try.
Woman on top.
Searching, giving, experimenting, sharing and comunication are key to this position. Closeness, but also able to have distance but still be tightly connected at all times. Deep feeling and full of scent, taste. Physical meaning lots of movement, staying on the go, but still warm. After it's over and you done a good job you've got that muscle straining feeling and your both are vary sweaty and she falls next to you and you've accomplished. That's me!
*smile*
I never saw a research topic I could turn down.
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Bob
Ya, I'm probably going to a bdsm convention saturday it should be interesting, but no girl is putting a collar and leash on me.
I personally prefer to be on the bottom when making love. It feels better to me and gives me a chance to kind of guide the woman where I want her to go.
well Heather, I have to say, that you've confused me lol, I want to anser your original question, but not sure how. so, I'll go and answer your second one. I have many favorite positions lol they range from being on top, to being on the bottom to having my legs wrapped around the guys shoulders as he goes down on me, going down on a guy, being pennatrated from behind . I can't really think of any, but who knows I might have forgot some. Oh hell I'll just say I love it all because I do!
I have to say that Jared's first response to this topic was typical Jared, though very amusing. Yeah yeah, I'll get crap for not posting on the topic, but I know that, and can deal with it. I do, however, enjoy being in control as well as letting the guy be in control at times also. It's not a relationship unless both persons give and take in equal porportions, the act of lovemaking being no exception.
Okay, I said I'd respond to the actual topic, so here it is. There are three positions that appeal to me, all for different reasons, so I'll list them all and the reasons that go with them.
Classic missionary, with the man on top, because I'm the kind of person who likes the man to have control. I have a submissive personality. Most people who know me would argue that point, but to me being submissive is not synonymous with being a push-over. I can be the biggest bitch you've ever met, and I don't hesitate to say how I feel, but I like my partner to take control and kind of guide things. I do like to have some say in how things are done, even though I don't often want to be the initiator or leader, and this position allows for a little of both.
Standing up, against the wall (not sure if there's an actual name for this), because there's plenty of room for improvisation. I'm a very spontaneous person, and I like things to flow smoothly from point A to point B without a lot of difficult transitioning. With this position, it's easier to get into others, and there's also opportunity to be a little rough. That bit doesn't much reflect my personality, I just like a little more aggression and dominance in sex than the average person.
And finally, doggy style, for much the same reasons as the first, but to a higher degree. I am, as I said, a submissive person, and this allows the man to have the control and power.
Hmmm, this was sort of long and rambly. Ahwell. I tried to pick just one, but couldn't come up with a way of doing so that would incorporate all the aspects of my personality the way I wanted it to.
Ah, very interesting.
Dancing After dark, at least you were able to narrow it down to three, instead of listing the cama sutra. rofl I know how difficult it can be to choose just one position. That's why questions that judge your personality by asking for your favorite of something are really good indicators, because if you absolutely have to choose just one of something then you tend to think a lot harder about it and also to find out a lot more about your self then if you are indecisive. Kat, I can understand though. It's all great, and it all rocks, so, choosing can be difficult. Oh, and to another poster, that doesn't surprise me one little bit. The simbolism of a collar and leash in the BDSM community is understood to be one of extreme trust and of comittment. I can understand why the poster would have trouble with that. Any way. Great responses all. More are always welcome.
Chelsie I'll fuck you doggy styme so hard that you can't walk for a week.
Mm, Jared, Jared, Jared ... I love you. That's the greatest proposition I've ever gotten.
wow lucky you chelsea, eh?
Well, not even going to bother with posts forty-six through forty-eight. Anyway. Just felt the need to post once again, as my favorit position has changed in the last few days, and I do believe that it also reflects my personality to an extent, so I thought I would update my previous post, erm, posts, whatever. I like to think that I am a rather unique and inovative individual, and I believe this to be a unique and inovative position, not to mention, it rocks. No idea what to call it so I'll just describe it. The woman lies on her side, let's say her right side for explinations's sake. She raises her left leg so that her legs make a verticle v shape. The man straddles her right thie facing towards her, that is they could make eye contact if they wished. The man holds the woman's leg over his shoulder or out to the side, controling the angle and shape of her entrence while also anchoring her in place. This allows for especially deep and or fast thrusts and it looks rather strange and wonderfully erotic as well. Also the difference that turning the usual "insert tab B into slot A" arangement ninety degrees,makes is encredible. Exquisit and new sensations for both partners are also a plus. It allows for hard, fast and rough, or terribly controled, careful and prolonged. Just thought I'd check back in and share my new two cents. Evening all.
That's nothing special. Special is swap.avi, or mrhands.mpg or some of the fucked up bdsm stuff.
It's unique, not outlandish. I'm stating a preference, not going for shock value here. OPlease, for all of our sakes, get a life.
Why don't you get a life, find a guy who will constently fuck you and keep you off this site for fucks sake.
Oh, believe me I have one, with whom I am extremely satasfied.
Oh heather, dear, dear heather, i really think you should stop trying to match wits with jared cuz you're losin', babe.
anyway, in response to the topic, i'd have to say that missionary is my favorite and the position i most identify with. I, like chelsea, don't believe that submission = door mat but i love for him to get as much satisfaction as possible in bed as well as in our day-to-day life.
Jared, love the posts!
that is all.
Well then Heather it must be bob because no flesh and blood man could tollerate your constent inane anoying dribble, and your dimwitted comments.
Oh, you poor unsatasfied, social outcast who lives on the net. I pitty you. I don't feel the need to match wits with him or I'd seek him out. However, that would be a supreme waste of my time, even more so then coming on the zone is in general. I merely respond to his posts when he posts to my topics or to topics which I felt the need to read and or post to. That is all. Thank you.
Ah Preciosa has a point. *smile
I found this topic interesting as for the posters who have replied to the question, so could we get back to this and put our boxing gloves up? *smile*
mmmm! I want your deep space nine! Resistance is indeed, futile! lol
lol Frequency.
I like being on top - because I like what comes with that... you can figure it out...